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Be Informed: What is Escrow?

The first time you heard the term, “escrow” you may have been thrown for a loop. While the word may have had you confused the first time, here are some essential things to know about escrow–what it is, what it’s used for, and how it works.

What Is Escrow?

Escrow is a legal notion where money or assets are held by a third-party on behalf of two other parties in the middle of completing a transaction.

An escrow company provides two parties the service to make sure everyone does what they say they’re going to do. The escrow company acts as a middleman to protect the assets while the home purchasing process is happening.

Applied to real estate transactions–when buying or selling a home, escrow is the trusted third-party, who is someone other than the buyer or seller, who will hold money to make sure you execute the transaction correctly.

The key thing to remember here is that the third-party is a trusted party. This is a neutral entity that doesn’t care whether a home buyer or home seller comes out ahead of the other. The primary role of an escrow service is to make sure each party in a real estate transaction holds up its end of the deal.

Search for a reputable escrow company, or ask your real estate agent for a recommendation to find a trustworthy service.

How Escrow Works When Purchasing A Home

When buying a new home, you agree to pay the purchase amount within a certain time, and the seller will provide the home they’re selling. Your home purchase is probably contingent on a few things; namely financing and a home inspection. While you’re securing financing and scheduling a professional home inspection, you will make an escrow payment, or an “earnest deposit,” writing a check to an escrow provider in an agreed-upon amount that shows your intent or seriousness of purchasing that home. This gives the seller some reassurance that you’re serious.

Escrow opens when a buyer and seller sign an agreement for a real estate transaction, then deliver the agreement to an escrow officer who helps make sure everyone meets the contract conditions.

Escrow closes when everyone did everything they agreed to do, and the homeownership is transferred to the buyer.

Once the escrow provider verifies everyone held up their end of the agreement, they’ll either give you a refund, apply it to the purchase price or the home, or pass the money along to the seller (if the buyer doesn’t satisfy requirements).

Escrow Accounts For Homeowners Insurance And Property Taxes

The other time you’ll hear about escrow may be for an escrow account–which is slightly different than for a real estate transaction. When making your monthly mortgage payments on your home loan, you may also be paying for additional home expenses like property taxes and homeowner’s insurance as part of one lump sum.

Property taxes are usually an annual expense, and sometimes homeowner’s insurance is as well, though many insurance companies accept monthly payments. To alleviate the lender’s risk of you not budgeting properly for these payments, they make sure tax and insurance get paid by adding them to your monthly mortgage payment.

This portion of your monthly payment is deposited into a separate, escrow account. These funds are kept in escrow (by a company outside of both you and your lender) until their respective payments are due once a year, then they’ll make the payment on your behalf. You’ll discuss this with your lender when you finalize the purchase of your home, so it shouldn’t be a surprise.

If there’s a difference in how much you owe and how much you’ve contributed to the escrow account, your lender will let you know. You’ll either receive a refund if you overpaid, or if you didn’t contribute enough, your lender will pay the difference, then send you a bill for the additional amount. You may be able to pay the bill over the coming year.

If you need help finding an escrow company or have any questions about the escrow process for real estate, get in touch!
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Client Red Flags: How You Know The Seller Will Be A Nightmare

When your job is heavily tilted toward customer service, you know that you have to deal with all kinds of people — and you aren’t going to like all of them. That’s just part of life! But there’s a difference between having a slight personality clash with a client or rubbing each other the wrong way every now and then, and a client-agent relationship that is downright toxic.

Sometimes it’s hard to tell whether a client is going to be a difficult fit or a downright nightmare for you. If you’re new to the business or just need a refresher, here are some big red flags that your seller client, in particular, is probably going to be the latter.

They don’t understand the market

Let’s be clear: By itself, this is not an enormous scarlet flag that should send you running for the hills. However, it’s usually one of the first indications that a seller doesn’t have the best judgment, doesn’t like to let facts get in the way of their opinion, has an ego problem, or some other more serious issue that could be a dealbreaker.

On the other hand, it could just be an indication that they haven’t been paying attention to the market and don’t know what to expect in terms of pricing or timing. So take this one with a grain of salt, unless it’s accompanied by several other questionable behaviors.

They think quirky renovations increase the home’s value

Every once in a while, a listing comes to market that’s so weird and out-there that the photos go viral on social media. It could be something as relatively innocuous as an, um, intimate dungeon in one room, or some rather unusual choices of color or decoration or what-have-you. And you know what, who should anybody be to judge? The whole point of homeownership is to have a placet o call your own and shape into exactly what you want.

The problem arises when sellers insist that their interesting and not very common taste enhances the value of the house. Not only will some sellers refuse to shape their homes a little more closely to buyers’ tastes, but they might also decide to price their home well above neighborhood comps because “it has something none of the neighbors’ homes has!” That’s true, but so is the fact that not every buyer wants a house with a creepy mermaid mural in the bathroom or a stripper pole in the corner of the bedroom.

A job well done is a reason to complain

Unfortunately, you won’t be able to identify this seller until after you’ve done something amazing — sold their home quickly, and possibly above asking price. Even though they made the decision to accept the offer, they might decide later on that you advised them poorly and they could have made even more money if they’d decided to leave it on the market for long. Who knows where people get these ideas?

They can’t agree — with each other

Hopefully, none of your clients will be real-life incarnates of George and Martha from Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, but it’s possible that you might run into a handful who clearly aren’t used to agreeing with one another and expect you to mediate their differences. Maybe one wants to sell quickly while the other is content to wait. Or one likes the idea of reducing the price and the other thinks it’d be better to just take the house off the market. You may have a lot of skills as an agent, but you’re not expected to be a marriage counselor for basic decision-making.

They look for reasons to personally dislike people they don’t know

If your seller suddenly starts to develop animosity toward the buyer before they ever meet face-to-face at the closing table, watch out. Unless the buyers are being the nightmare — it happens! — you may find yourself having to placate the seller and soothe ruffled feathers, or even convince the seller not to drop a nuke on the deal because they got an idea that they couldn’t work with the buyer. You need to be especially careful if sellers begin espousing ideologies and opinions about the buyers that could get you into Fair Housing trouble.

They think they know better than you do

There’s nothing new under the sun, including home sellers who seem to have an idea that they could do your job better than you, in fact, are doing your job. The attitude itself is common enough that you might not want to make it a hill to die on, sad to say — where it becomes a real issue is when your clients completely disregard your advice because they’re confident that they know more than you do. Why? Because that’s when you find yourself in a situation where a client is blaming you for an action they took against your advice.

They micromanage

Just about everybody has had a bad experience with a micromanaging boss who won’t let them do their job, and it’s more than probable you might end up with one of those clients eventually. Maybe they think the listing photos or marketing materials could be better and want to adjust the typeface or ask you to retake the photos. Perhaps they’re nitpicking a word choice in the listing description. Those things are more tolerable than clients who want to micromanage the contract or negotiations, areas where they really should be leaning on your guidance.

They don’t want to compromise

Whether it’s refusing to budge on the price, not wanting to work with buyers who ask about repair credits or other concessions after the inspection, or throwing a temper tantrum if the appraisal comes in below their contract price, a seller who won’t compromise doesn’t give you a lot of room to maneuver as the agent. Maybe you’re really good at getting deals done without wiggle room, but for some agents, this can very reasonably be a reason they don’t want to work with a client again.

They don’t want to spruce up … at all

This one is another flag that might mean the seller is a nightmare, but it could just mean that they aren’t in a financial situation to do much around the house. Usually, though, you can tell the difference between someone who has pride in their home but can’t afford the latest upgrades, and someone who simply doesn’t care that the walls are practically falling down around them. If the seller has the financial means to make necessary repairs but refuses to do it, or won’t negotiate on price even though the place is below the standards for most of the market, then you’re most likely working with someone unreasonable.

They find fault with everything you do

Selling a home can be a very emotional time, and when a seller nitpicks at you or berates you, it’s not something you ever have to put up with — but it’s also at least somewhat understandable sometimes. When a seller can’t help but pick apart everything you do to find fault with it, though, that’s a good sign that this relationship is probably going to be a lot more trouble and stress than it will be worth for you, financially and otherwise.

You aren’t comfortable

We don’t always pay enough attention to the alarm bells that sound in our head when someone dangerous or predatory is around, and hopefully, you’ll never encounter a seller who could fit that description. But … but. Real estate can be a dangerous business, and you won’t do yourself any favors by ignoring your gut instinct and hanging around a client who makes you uncomfortable. If alarm bells start ringing in your head and you get that “get out” feeling, you know what to do — get out.
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Everything You Need To Know About Selling A House With Tenants

It’s stressful being a landlord at the best of times, but when the time comes for you to sell your investment property and move on, the stress can feel palpable. You’ve probably spent time getting to know your tenants and have built a relationship with them, and most humans don’t deal with change all that well.

Springing the “guess what, I’m selling your residence out from under you” conversation can feel like a big deal, even if everyone involved knows that isn’t really what’s happening. If you own a home with tenants in it that you want to sell, what do you need to know and address?

You can still sell your house even if there are tenants living in it …

The good news is this: You have the legal right to sell your property, even if there are tenants living there. It’s your house and your decision to make, and if you want to sell it, that is well within your purview.

That said, there’s a good way to go about selling your home with tenants, and there are a lot of ways that generate resentment and a lack of cooperation and that generally are not pleasant or fun for anyone involved. You do have the right to sell your house; your tenants have rights, too. To make this a tolerable process for them — and, frankly, to get the place sold faster and for more money — you’ll need to solicit your tenants’ cooperation.

… But in most states, they can stay through the end of their lease

One of the rights that your tenants have is to stay in the property until the end of their lease. This applies to both month-to-month leases and fixed-term leases for longer periods of time, such as six months or one year.

Selling a rental house with a month-to-month lease is relatively easy; refresh your memory as to the terms of your lease agreement and give your tenants the appropriate notice that you will not be renewing the lease when it ends. This could be anywhere from 30 to 60 days, depending on how your lease is written and what state the property is in.

Selling a rental with a fixed-term lease can be a bit more complicated. It’s possible that your tenants’ lease might not be up for several months, and if you really can’t wait for them to vacate before buying, then you’ll need to work with them throughout the sales process, and they will stay on in their residence after it’s sold.

Would the tenant be interested in buying?

One easy solution to the issue of selling a home with tenants is to ask the tenants if they’d be interested in buying. Not everyone is going to be able to afford to do this, of course, but it’s very possible that your tenants love where they live enough to consider securing a mortgage loan and making you an offer.

If this happens, it’s really a best-case scenario for everybody. You don’t have to go through the hassle of preparing a home for sale, putting it on the market, and handling buyer bids; buyers don’t have to go through the pain of finding a home that works well for them in their price range. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you can take this step without professional help, though; it’s still a good idea to hire an agent to make sure your interests are being represented and protected.

Can you wait until the lease is up?

Depending on how long is left on the lease, you might be able to just wait until it’s up, gives your tenant the appropriate amount of notice that you won’t be renewing the lease and need them to vacate, and then put the home up for sale. Simple! Unfortunately, in some circumstances, the tenant may have more than six months left on the lease, and you may truly need the house to sell as quickly as possible.

If you can’t wait until the lease is up, you’ll need to have a conversation with your tenants about the sale. This should probably be an in-person conversation, followed by a formal letter — but the in-person conversation will give you an idea of what you’ll need to do to incentivize your tenants to be cooperative, which could mean the difference between an immediate sale or a listing that lingers and lingers.

Decide how you’re going to market the property

Most sellers who are trying to offload a rental property have a couple of different options for how to market the home. They can sell it as an investment property — in which case, an established tenant is a distinct plus — or they could sell it as an owner-occupied home. Investors won’t mind at all that the property has a tenant; in fact, they might consider it a reason to buy in and of itself.

You can market the home as both; that’s also an option. There are some traditional buyers who won’t be moving immediately and won’t mind waiting out a lease, so limiting yourself exclusively to investors isn’t necessarily your only possible path forward.

Work with your tenant on appropriate showing times

It’s important to remember that you are the person in this relationship who desires the sale. Your tenants probably have a lot of feelings about it, few of them positive; they are likely anxious about the future, unsure of where they will move or whether they will have to, sad about the loss of their residence, and more. So if you want them to cooperate to the best of their abilities, you will need to make this process as easy as possible for them.

The first thing to do — and possibly the most important — is to ask your tenant about their schedule. When would it be convenient for them to open their residence for showings, and when are the incredibly inconvenient times? Do what you can to limit showings only to the times that tenants have indicated are convenient for them. Buyers who are motivated will be willing to clear their schedules to see a house that might be a fit, so you can feel free to give your tenants some control over the scheduling.

Offer to pay for cleaning, lawn maintenance, or both

Another big pain point for your tenants is going to be keeping their residence looking showing-worthy just in case a buyer wants to stop by. This is difficult enough for sellers who are motivated to offload their own residence, but when you’re a tenant who doesn’t have a choice in the matter and you’re not going to see any financial benefit from your behavior, why would you be inspired to spend almost all your time outside of work keeping up with your house?

One way you can show your tenants that you care about their experience in this process is to help them out by hiring cleaning or lawn maintenance help — or both — to help them keep up with the showings and alleviate some stress. Yes, it’s going to cost you some money, as will a few of these suggestions. But is it better to spend some money upfront and sell the place more quickly, or to pinch your pennies and allow the home to languish on the market for months? At that point, you may as well wait for your tenants to vacate if you’re not willing to do anything to hasten the process.

Provide 24 hours’ notice for showings

Different states have different requirements for how much notice you need to give tenants about showings, but a good rule of thumb that’s acceptable in all states is to provide them at least 24 hours’ notice. Make sure that all buyer’s agents know this is the case, and don’t acquiesce to pleas to squeeze someone in at the last minute. It could be illegal, it will very likely leave a bad taste in your tenant’s mouth, and you could wind up with an uncooperative tenant on your hands as a result.

Arrange for the tenant to leave during showings

Tenants might not be intrusive when possible buyers are walking through the house, but it’s still pretty awkward to try to look at a place with the current occupant present. Talk to your tenants about options for things they can do while buyers come by to look, and do what you can to make those options easy for them. Maybe spending some gift cards to a local coffee shop or brewpub would be welcome ways for them to spend the hour or so they have to vacate the premises?

Send them on a mini-holiday for the open house

Planning on having an open house over the weekend? What will your tenants do during that time? Maybe you can offer them a night or a weekend away in a nice hotel while you host the open house. This is an opportunity for you to get a bunch of buyers in the house at once, especially if the open house is a significant part of the marketing campaign you’ve established with your agent. Do whatever you can to make it as good as you can make it — and as comfortable as possible for your tenants.

Help the tenant find a new place to live

As a landlord, it’s possible that you have more than one property in the area, and it’s also possible that you may have an opening in a residence that would suit your tenant perfectly. If that’s the case, you can absolutely present that offer to your tenant. Ask if they’d like to see the new residence, make time to show them around, and if they agree that it would be a good fit, maybe offer to help them move, too. If there’s a price difference between their current place and the new one, you might be able to do some negotiating or use it as a bargaining chip.

Even if you don’t have any other homes that might be suitable for your tenant, you might know other landlords or property managers in town through your own business. Reach out to them and mine your network to see how you can best situate your tenants. They’ll thank you for it later!

What if the tenant is behind in rent?

In an ideal world, you could ask your tenant for the rent owed, collect it, then sell your property with no further issues. But the world we live in is not ideal, and a tenant who owes rent already isn’t exactly a selling point when you’re trying to offload a rental property. In fact, it’s a liability!

There are a few ways you can tackle this problem. You could tell the tenant you will forgive their outstanding rent if they agree to move out immediately. You could try to put them on a payment plan that will help them get current by the time the sale happens. Or, depending on how far behind they are, you could start the eviction process — which isn’t fast or easy, but if there are no other options, it may be your best one.

Consider ‘cash for keys’

This term refers to a practice of giving tenants money to move out early. Sometimes landlords do this when the tenant is a problem — for example, not paying rent, or antagonizing other neighbors. It’s essentially exactly what it sounds like: You approach the tenant and offer to pay them to leave.

Your tenant doesn’t have to be a problem tenant to use this strategy when you know you want to sell. If you’re pretty sure that your tenants would cause problems in the sale, and you can’t wait for their lease to end, ask if you could pay them one month’s rent and their security deposit, or whatever seems reasonable to you, if they would break their lease and vacate early. You can also offer additional incentives, like paying for a moving company to help them make the move. This might seem counter-intuitive, but if you really need the place sold and you’re out of other options, it can be the best solution to your problem.
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How to Find the Right Vacation Rental

Planning to stay in a hotel for your vacation is so ’90s. The emergence of the internet and websites like Airbnb, VRBO, TripAdvisor and more have made it possible for travelers to feel right at home in a new city … because they’re staying in someone else’s home and renting it for vacation.

Vacation rentals are a great way to get to know an area like the locals do. They’re often more spacious than hotel rooms, and unless you’re booking a hotel suite, you’ll also typically have access to amenities like a full kitchen.

Of course, there’s always a risk to using a vacation rental instead of a hotel — for example, some rentals might not have internet access, some might be inconveniently located for what you want to do, and there are people posting homes that aren’t really theirs and taking money as part of a scam. (This is much more popular on open websites like Craigslist than targeted ones like Airbnb, for what it’s worth.)

How do you make sure that you’re choosing the right spot for your vacation experience? Here’s a quick guide to how to find the right vacation rental for your visit.

Decide where you’re going

Maybe you want to ski in Tahoe or sun yourself on Miami Beach. Before you can start seriously looking at vacation homes to rent, it’s smart to decide where you want to go for a vacation and what you want to see and do while you’re there.

This seems easy, but most of us have several places we’d like to go given enough time and money. The key is in prioritization — and consulting your fellow vacationers, of course. Make a list of any places you wanted to go that didn’t make the cut and save it for the next vacation.

Decide what you want in a rental

Sometimes you can find a great deal on a vacation rental that will save you hundreds of dollars on your vacation … but that rental might be located miles and miles from any major attractions, meaning you’ll either have to rent a car, take public transportation (if available), or take on another expense to get where you want to go.

By contrast, a place right on the slopes (or the shore) might be more expensive than the other options, but you’re paying in part for convenience. Is that something you’re willing to do?

Make another list of the features you must have in your vacation rental, from location to a number of beds to whether you need an internet connection. Think about how much cooking (or not) you’ll want to do, whether you want to be close to restaurants or public transportation — in other words, make a list of your ideal vacation rental for this trip.

One nice thing about platforms like Airbnb and VRBO.com is the filter application; you can include your must-haves and the search results will only generate vacation rentals that meet your exact criteria. So it pays to decide what those criteria are before you jump into the search.

Plan ahead

If you haven’t already selected dates for your trip, start checking to see what the busy and slow times of year (or season) are for the area where you want to vacation.

Maybe you want to hit a big event that’s going to be insanely popular. In that case, start planning as early as possible, and book your rental as early as you can, too — the rates will only get higher if you wait.

If it doesn’t really matter when you go, try to plan around any big events that could boost prices while you’re in town to find the best deal possible.

Google Map it

Once you start looking at actual homes, do yourself a favor and check out the neighborhoods and streets where those homes are located.

You might find something that’s lovely and impeccable on the inside, but if the general feel of the area doesn’t seem safe or polished to you, then maybe you should pass. Pay attention to major thoroughfares and attractions, too, so that you know there’s a highway behind the home that might keep you up at night or a concert hall that might be a little loud down the street.

The maps can also show you quickly which retail stores and restaurants are nearby, where the vacation rental is in regard to public transportation, whether the sidewalks are clean and well-maintained or trash-ridden and cracking — you can learn a lot from this step, so don’t skip it.

Read the reviews

Airbnb, VRBO.com, and other reputable vacation rental sites will have a review section — don’t ignore it.

Those reviews are written by other vacationers who stayed in the home. They often report on things like cleanliness, noise levels, whether the photos were representative of the home — all things you’ll absolutely want to know before you fork over money for a week in the place.

You can also see (to an extent) who left the reviews, how often they travel, how highly their own hosts rate them (a bad review from a poorly rated guest can probably be safely ignored), and then decide from there how valid you think their opinion is (or is not).

Ask about amenities

Is there wifi in the vacation rental? That might be something you can filter out with search results, but other questions might not have handy answers — like, “do you make towels available for beach use,” “can I park in the garage,” and “is there a Nespresso machine in the kitchen.”

Look at your list of must-have criteria and ask yourself if you can confirm that the vacation rental has (or does not have) the items on that list. If there are any missing, ask the host about them. It’s possible that accommodations could be made, but you’ll never know unless you ask!

Ask about fees

Will your host charge for additional guests, and what’s the standard nightly cleaning fee? Can you access the vacation rental’s pool, or does that cost extra? When you’re close to deciding that this is the right place for you, contact the host (if you haven’t already) and ask about any additional fees or costs associated with staying there.

Not only will this help you budget, but getting an answer in writing can also protect you from any unknown charges if the host is an unscrupulous sort. Better safe than sorry.

Solicit suggestions for things to do

Most good hosts will do this without asking, but it’s always nice to ask the people who own the home (and have presumably lived in it) for tips on things to do and how to make the most of your time in the area.

Some good questions to ask hosts if you can’t think of any yourself:

What’s your favorite place to eat in the area?

What route do you talk about when you want to take a walk?

Where do you go when you want some quiet time outside of the house? Where do you go when you want to meet new people?

Where can you find the best live music in the neighborhood?

What’s the parking situation like? (If you have a car.)

What activities for kids or families are available?

Is there anything I should know about the neighbors?

When you take the time to plan ahead, finding (and renting) a vacation home, even if for the first time, is both easy and rewarding.

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How To Find A Mentor As A Real Estate Agent

One thing that can make an enormous difference in your career success as an agent is whether or not you have a high-quality mentor who can help you navigate the ins and outs of real estate. In fact, many agents discover that they operate very well if they have more than one mentor to tap for questions and advice.

Your real estate broker may be one of your first mentors, and if you really want to hone your skills and become the very best agent you can be, then you should also seek out other mentors who can help round out your experience and education. But how do you find a mentor? Here are the steps you should be taken consistently in order to keep a good number of mentors in your world as an agent.

Network, network, network

This is very standard advice for real estate agents; you have to network to find clients, after all. Networking with other agents can be beneficial for many reasons besides seeking out a mentor — you’ll meet people who can refer clients to you, for example, or who might know good resources for title and escrow, inspections and appraisals, or mortgage loan issues.

You should also network to keep your eyes open for potential mentors in your area. A good mentor will not only have more experience in real estate than you have; they’ll also understand the market and be able to give you advice on how to read it and share what they’ve learned.

Don’t walk up to a possible mentor and simply ask them to be your mentor, all that said. In a perfect world, you’ll be able to form a relationship with your mentor or mentors where they can help teach you about real estate and you can help them in some other way.

Start forming relationships

The best mentors are good not because they necessarily know better than everyone else; they’re the best because they understand your situation, your needs, your career goals and aspirations — and they know how to help you achieve those goals. This means that they’re going to have to get to know you as a person in addition to as an agent, and you’re going to have to be able to talk to them very frankly to get the best advice.

In other words, you’re going to have to form a real relationship with your mentor in order to truly benefit from your encounters and discussions. While you’re networking, make sure you’re spending a good portion of your time just getting to know people on a personal level. If your mentor can understand some of your life situations because they’ve been there before — and you can trust that they understand it because you know their history — then you can both cut through a lot of the explanations around why you think and feel the way you do and get straight to how you are going to strategize and operate around your challenges.

Decide who’s mentor material

You may really click with some people who you meet in a networking environment, but you know that for whatever reason, they aren’t going to work out as a mentor for you. That’s fine! You’re allowed to make friends and acquaintances, too. And on the flip side, you may meet people who you think would make excellent mentors, but for whatever reason, they aren’t going to be able to fill that role for you. These are all reasons why it’s smart to try to make more than one mentor connection if you can — there is no rule that says you can only have one mentor at the time, after all.

Think about the people you’ve met and consider their levels of experience and areas of expertise. Do you think any of them might have some information or skills that you could also use? Do any of those people who do seem like they could help you also seem interested in spending more time with you or forming a deeper relationship?

Hopefully, by this point you’ll have a shortlist of possible mentors, and you can start thinking more deeply about where you need help and where they might be able to assist you.

Assess your skills and ask for help …

Even though humans do have a tendency to overestimate their skills at just about everything, we also tend to be pretty good at knowing where we are strongest and where we could probably use a little bit of remedial assistance. It isn’t a mark of failure to understand that your financial planning could be better, or that you aren’t very familiar with marketing tactics in real estate, or that thinking about negotiating makes you feel a little bit nervous.

When you know where you need the most education and training, it’ll give you a better idea of whom in your mentor network to approach. You’ll know who’s best-suited to answer which questions and who might not be an expert in certain areas, and you can ask them for advice accordingly.

… While taking stock of how you can help, too

Most people tend to think of mentorship as a bit of a one-way street between the mentor and the mentee, but that absolutely does not have to be the case. There might be a lot you can do to help your mentor, both to thank them for the ways in which they’ve helped you and also to signal to them that you yourself are a resource and an asset to their business.

Perhaps one of your mentors keeps talking about learning the ins and outs of the latest social media platform but hasn’t had time to do it, and you could sit down with them and offer an hourlong hands-on tutorial. Maybe they need a landing page or listing description written, or someone to look over their website for typos. Your skills are likely just as varied as the mentors you’ve encountered, so think about what you can offer them — then offer it.

Talk about your challenges

Even the best mentor in the world can’t be expected to help a mentee solve a problem that they don’t know the mentee is currently juggling. It’s almost never the easiest thing in the world to be vulnerable with someone, especially someone you respect and whose respect you crave in exchange, but don’t lose sight of the end goal, which is to be the very best real estate agent that you’re capable of becoming. You can’t do that if your mentors don’t know about the problem client who’s been giving you headaches and exactly why the client is upset with you.

When you’ve reached a point in your relationship with your mentor where there’s been some reciprocal exchange of education and resources, it’s acceptable to approach them and ask them for their advice with a specific challenge that’s bothering you.

Take feedback to heart

Look, nobody likes to hear that they messed up; it’s human nature to shun that kind of feedback. Nonetheless, we have to hear it if we want to improve. One of the most valuable things any mentor can do for you is to provide straightforward, unbiased feedback about how you’re doing and where you could be better. And one of the smartest things you can do when you’re put in the position of listening to this feedback is to really listen, ask questions, refuse to get defensive and apply it when and where you can.

Believe that your mentors will notice how coachable you are. It will make them more inclined to share more wisdom with you in the future if they know that you take their experience and advice seriously.

Consider coaching

Some agents might dismiss coaching as an unnecessary expense, but smart agents think of it as an investment in their own future. Even if you have the most amazing network of mentors that has ever been seen in the history of real estate, you could still benefit from a coach — someone whose entire job and career is to make you better at yours, to call you on any excuses you’re making, and to hold you accountable to your goals. Many mentors can do some of these things some of the time, but almost no mentor will do all of them for you consistently, and when you reach a point in your career when you’re finding that you need deeper evaluation and fine-tuning of your strategies and efforts, a coach might be the next logical step for you.